男人的胸怀..

         朋友,你知道比海更宽广的是是什么吗?是天空.那么比天空更宽广的又是什么呢?宇宙??非也,是胸怀,男人的胸怀!

         民族英雄林则徐曾题于书室的一副自勉联:"海纳百川,有容乃大;壁立千仞,无欲则刚".

         大海可以容纳千百条河流,因为它这样广阔的胸怀所以是世间最伟大的.悬崖绝壁能够直立千丈,是因为它没有过分的欲望,不向其他地方倾倒(教育人们要放弃无谓的享乐欲,修身养性)

         海纳百川,有容乃大;壁立千仞;无欲则刚是修身养心的一剂良药:对人'事要心胸宽广,自己要慎独'慎欲.


         俗语云:"宰相肚里能撑船".我想把这句话改成"男人肚里能撑船"比较随我意.....

         真正有胸怀的大度男人绝对富有魅力.他懂得爱屋及乌,善解人意,将心比心,宽容迁让;他的字典里, 没有偏狭暴躁, 斤斤计较, 忌妒报复, 以牙还牙. 他也有粗心和疏忽的时候,但不会吝惜关爱和呵护.

        男人必要的时候应该显示出一种大智若愚的态度....


       真正有胸怀的大度男人绝对富有魅力!!! 

when we r together..

part of my v day.. :)

very outdated pixies!!

wanted to upload them for long, but blogger having sum photos uploading error lately!

finally they r up here!

this is sumwhr at the corner of the castle.. no one walk into it so..
there i cum out with this stupid idea..
i told bf to snap a pixie for me while i climb n tend to lay on the wall.. haha..
i seems cool n real steady there...

then i said hey ur tuen, there he climb..
he wan me to take the pixie faster coz he's gonna fall anytime!!
so round the face n body, nvm its cute! hahaha!

n then my turn again.. i climb higher as in im taking myself as spider woman! u noe! >,<!
there is no pic no 4 coz he cant clim as high as me..
hahaha! i just wana have fun at tat moment..